Back to the Wild

So, things didn't work out with "that guy" from previous posts. I had a feeling, and I'm sure you did too. Its OK. I know I cant do anything to make someone want to be interested in me, and facts are, he just isn't, even though he thinks I'm a lovely person. I've said it before, always a good catch, just never the one kept. Always thrown back into the wild. One of his reasons was because he is still 'pining' over someone. Someone who treated him like shit and is not good for him (according to him). Why do these men pine over women who treat them like shit? I'm actually starting to wonder if I need to treat men like shit in order for them to be interested. Man, its so tiring. I cant for the life of me be mean to someone I like or love. I can be mean to someone I hate though. Hello? Get the hint men (and women!). I guess it holds true for women too with the whole 'bad boy' thing. For me, I like excitement, but also someone who is nice to me and wants me around. I thought that was standard.

I haven't been on a date since my terrible eHarmony experiences. Its no surprise really, as Dateless in Detroit, I hold true to my title by going on approximately 1 date a year (if I'm lucky). I had a thought this morning. I know I've given up on all forms of online dating sites but I was thinking maybe I'd sign up again for research purposes. By research, I mean hilarious stories. I miss writing about crazy dates and funny stories. I have to admit, I also miss being taken out to dinner or drinks even if it turns out to be strange. I'm thinking I'll start off with a free website, just so I am not wasting money I don't have.

I'm taking a day or two to sleep on this idea before I venture back into this annoyance. I'm not sure I'm quite up to sifting through profiles of shirtless chachki's and toothless wonders. We'll see.